JUST SAW ANOTHER, DEAD ... AND I JUST WONDER ...

When you see people walking on the street, cruising in exquisite cars, driving in and out of posh residences, it looks as if they will live forever!

When you see them in mire, under Lagos bridges (in those days, I guess), jumping off and on to molue, existing in naked squalour, it appears they have failed in life.

The rich looks like they have inherited the earth for keeps,
And the poor merely existing alongside, to remind the rich of how successful they are.

But in reality, both the rich and the poor die!


And what is their lot:

a rectangular space in the red earth, not even up to the size of some of the beds we so comfortably sleep on!

All the make-up, costumes, body-enhancing surgeries, tattoos, body piercings, and whatever adornment we have so lavishly indulged in,
would cease to matter to your new neighbours -

the termites, the rodents, the tiny beings that you never noticed on earth!

I write this, teary-eyed: my neighbour lost his dad to the cold hands of death this afternoon!

The man has been around with us.
We joked with him, laughed with him, prayed with him!

He returned from the hospital this morning after routine check-up

No one knew it would be his last visit!

He should be in the morgue right now ... prompting me to ask:

WHAT IS LIFE REALLY ALL ABOUT?


Adieu, Papa Ifeanyi! Do rest in perfect peace!

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